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    Do you let your SO masturbate alone?

    I know some women don't like the idea of their significant others masturbating by themselves for whatever reason, but I think it's a natural thing guys just need to do. As long as my wife is not feeling it, I get the green light to use the hand. I don't think I'd do it in front of her because it would feel a bit weird for me, but I'm glad she's cool with it.

    What are your situations?

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    I wouldnt say I dont let him.............just that I'm there with him most of the time. If I'm not there, I dont care if he does or not. I do it when he's not there to satisfy me when I need it.

    If he wants it, he just starts trying to get me into it. A couple days ago, he was looking up porn while I was in the shower and when I came out he asked if we could watch it together while I gave him a blow job. I was totally fine with that.
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    It's ok for men AND women to masturbate on their own. Women need to realize that men aren't replacing them with their hand. It's a different feeling. I often masturbate within an hour after having sex. My boyfriend masturbates usually twice a week. I masturbate about 5 times a week. And we have sex about 4 times a week. I have never walked in on him or vice versa. He usually does it in the shower. I do it in bed before work or late at night. It's a natural thing to do, there's nothing wrong with it.

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    I was caught in the shower once, my wife of 35 years had a "headache" one night so I said I'm going to grab a shower, well she came into the shower just as I blew and was mad as hell she said it was like cheating, so now I don't get caught.

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    I've been very open with my wife that I masturbate. I've told her I look at porn, I however, dont lust after those women, and she completely understood and didn't mind.

    I suppose it all falls down to how your SO feels about it, or how they find out about it.

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    She can rub one out anytime she wants....she isnt my personal property, she is my wife. I would like to watch mind you....but it is her body. She lets me stick my cock in her pussy, mouth and ass from time to time.....so I cant complain.....Funny how the term (SO, Significant Other) takes a backseat to peoples paranoia.....

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    No I actually try to give my man privacy so he can enjoy himself. Sometimes we masturbate each other too. My man also plays with me while I'm using my vibrator by either playing with my tits or sucking on my nipples, kissing my neck or anything else he wants to do

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    Idk Haven't really had to deal with this i am sure he jacks off just never caught him or anything

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    I don't mind my wife doing it at all. She used to have a problem with me doing it. She has chilled out a lot over the last nine years.

    I do feel a tiny wee bit hurt if she does it after telling me she's too tired/headache/not in the mood.

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    Let? Let!? I had to encourage her to do it! Can you believe that my wife was 34 the first time she masturbated? Of course, now there's no looking back. I feel sorry for her on all those lost years of great orgasms, but she's making up for lost time. As for me, she doesn't care when or how often I masturbate.

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